3 Principles to COMMAND Respect in Your Relationship!

Ladies, it is time for you to show respect to yourself and face your value and worth. If you are currently in a relationship being abused physically and mentally and constantly being disrespected by your partner’s cheating episodes, I give you a solution today – PACK YOUR EMOTIONS AND WALK AWAY.

Ladies, you are worth more than vanity and sure more than a relationship status. One of the primal causes of women becoming so depressed and internally unfulfilled when it comes to a relationship is simply because women stay longer than they should in relationships. Now, do not get me wrong, I am not saying leave your relationship if you both desire to work on it and I am not saying to leave your relationship because of disagreements. I am saying LEAVE if you have seen what you needed to see – cheating, abuse, etc.

Here are the 3 key principles to establish in your life ladies IMMEDIATELY:

• Find your TRUE self. Sit down and think about all the experiences you have been through and all things you learned. Figure out in your time of isolation – the things you desire from a relationship that would contribute to your growth and bring more to your happiness. Once you solidify who you are and what you want and need, if your partner doesn’t qualify, you have a choice to make if you continue or discontinue that relationship. But always put God first and you second ladies, not a man or a relationship.

• What do you want with your life? Spend time to work on your goals by simply figuring out where God desires you and what He wants you to do with the life He has blessed you with. Getting a job is the first step but never sit in procrastination or settle just for a job. Instead, use that job as a stepping stone to your goals and work hard for the finer things in life. Ladies, you desire to have the life of your dreams so do not limit yourself to being used and trashed by men. This will also empower you because you will not have to depend solely on a man’s income to live. Read Proverbs 31.

• Set boundaries. You have to draw a line when it comes to a relationship in how men communicate with you and treat you. Believe this or not, but a man will treat you based on how he sees you treat yourself and he will test you to see what you will tolerate. It is not to say that you will end a relationship at a mistake but some actions against you deserve that relationship being terminated like cheating, constant lying, and disrespectful language being thrown at you. Pull a brake on the first attempt because what you allow will continue.