4 Ways to Lessen the Arguments in Your Relationship!

Arguments will flare because you will not agree all the time on issues and it is perfectly normal. What is unacceptable is when every single conversation is an argument and after all is said, there is avoidance and malice. To argue effectively and also respectfully, there are steps.

1: Listen. Most issues could be resolved if persons simply listen and not just passively but actively. If you truly desire a healthy relationship, you have to learn this as this will save you a lot of stress in your relationship.

2: Avoid throwing something that was shared in confidence, in your partner’s face. If your man trusted you to tell you something, throwing in it when there is an argument, can lead to more damage. Always stick to the issue at hand and handle that which is before you.

3: Show respect even if the other party is disrespectful. It is easier said than done but it can be done once you decide to make it happen. Two wrongs surely won’t make a right so if both you and your man going at it in screaming matches, what eventually will happen is either you both storm away in bitterness towards each other or some level of abuse. Either of the two is bad. One person has to be the bigger person.

4: Agree to disagree! To really sustain a relationship, you sometimes have to take the blame – they call it choosing peace over winning an argument. You have to learn to respectfully agree to disagree on certain issues that may arise in your relationship.