5 Things YOU MUST Do When You’re Single!

The relationship ended - what now? Well, it is time to rediscover yourself, be healed, and enjoy who you are. For far too long, women felt that without a relationship, they have failed at life, and they are incomplete. That is not true. Ladies, being single is not as bad it is portrayed, and women should embrace this period in their life to figure themselves out and to attract winning relationships and not losing bums. Ladies, here is the formula to a perfect bounce-back. Do these things and I promise you when you are ready to date again and to ultimately settle down, you will attract and retain the man of your desires.

Reconnect to God; CONNECT stronger to God. It is the perfect time to work on your most important love affair – the relationship you SHOULD have with God. Now, you will have the time to study the Word and find your place in the Holy Kingdom. Once you have established this relationship ladies, you will experience true healing and that bitterness you had to your ex who probably betrayed you and dumped you, well it will be gone. You will finally see things in a different light because you would have experienced a true spiritual encounter. This relationship is imperative because it will never cause you to settle or downplay who you are but rather, it will bring you to the mirror to let you see who you are and truly FIX you.

Find Yourself. Ladies, in your single period – you must practice the art of being still. Meditation allows your mind to be centered and believe it or not, gives crystal clear clarity. When you have clarity, you will be able to look within you and see your flaws and your strengths and you can truly find yourself as you begin to work on yourself. In finding yourself, you will begin to know things about yourself like what you love and what you hate. You will also have room to change things you do not particularly like about yourself. For example, you are afraid to say no because you are afraid you will not be liked. It is so important to do this because when you do not know who you are, you will accept any label anyone pins on you.

Self-Care. Taking care of yourself will be your focus. Now more than ever you will have time and energy to go to the gym, see your doctors, and start eating healthy. You can also do fun things like getting your hair done exactly how you like it, your nails groomed, and even get yourself a massage and a facial. Ladies, you need to invest in taking care of your bodies because it is indeed the temple of God, and it should be respected by you. But self-care also involves the mind. Now, you can invest in getting an education or even simple things like reading motivational and inspirational books. It is all about leveling up your mind, body, and spirit.

Date yourself. This may sound crazy to a lot of people, but it is important ladies that you do this while single. You ought to treat yourself like you desire your husband to treat you so yes, dress up, buy yourself roses and take yourself to dinner. It will seem strange at first, but I promise you once you know how you are supposed to be treated and you treat yourself how you desire your partner to, you will not settle, and it will boost your confidence in a major way.

Enjoy it. Enjoy it while it lasts but keep in mind you determine how long it lasts so do not be in a rush to date again especially if you haven’t given yourself enough time to truly find yourself, date yourself, and do enjoy it.