Expectations of women that are major turn-offs of men!

There is nothing more admirable than a woman who is confident and knows exactly what she wants. Yes, it perfectly normal to have standards but what is abnormal is having expectations blown-out of the galaxy. The 1st thing all women should be extremely aware of is, there is no such thing as the perfect or infallible man. All men are flawed and with this fact established, all women should expect nothing but imperfections.

There is a clear difference between having standards and having expectations. Standards are the indicators of your character which simply means they shape who you are as a person and what you are seeking in a relationship. Expectations on the other hand, are setting the limits before knowing the limits and what this does over time, is create an explosion of heartbreaks and disappointments.

So what are some of the expectations of women that are major turn-offs of men?

1: Just meet and already wedding and having children are high priority. Once this is put on the dating table, expect not to expect another phone call or text message as this will definitely scare that man.

2: The man must have his career to the highest level, mansions, cars and a jet. Once you start digging or chipping away at a man finances before establishing or securing a relationship, that man is long gone.

3: Should not desire sex on the 1st night. Ladies, men are visible and lustful creatures which mean if they see an attractive woman, it is quite normal for them to react in a sexual manner. It is only disrespectful when that man is forcing you to a bedroom when clearly your intentions are to get to know him. Otherwise from that, it is normal for the man to have sexual desires.

4: A man should know what you want and how you want it. Men are logical beings and with that, you have to learn to say what you want and what you mean and make it vivid so there are no misunderstandings which can lead to arguments.

There are many more where those came from but a woman needs to understand that having expectations especially those that are far-fetched, will only set the relationship for failure.