Feminine Tips You Need To Change Your Life IMMEDIATELY!

Ladies, it is time to live in your feminine energy. We have been taught to be confident, strong and independent but we were never taught, at least most of us women anyways, on how to be feminine and operate in your femininity, basically being comfortable within how God constructed us.

We charge you to take these guideline to guide you and watch the result of your life holistically.

• Create a RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. Ladies, this is the most important relationship you need to first invest in. I know a lot of Coaches and Influencers influence women to fall in love with “self” but truth is – God is the LOVE you need to fall in love with. What I mean ladies is, you need to first find God to find yourself and ultimately, your purpose. For you to truly debunk the masculinity within you and embrace your femininity and its allure, you must first consult the One who created you. So, start by confessing your sins, praying, getting membership within a Holy Spirited Church and READING your Bible daily. Another habit you could inculcate is to prayer-journaling. What this is, is basically writing your emotions, thoughts, desires in a journal and addressing it to God. Ladies, ensure you lock and key this because this will set the pace for all other relationships in your life.

• Look the part. Ladies, it is important that you dress the part to motivate the change. Avoid wearing pants everyday, bulgy clothing and dark colors. Play in colors, wear dresses, skirts and heels. Enjoy being woman. Wear makeup and invest in grooming which means getting your hair and nails done. Make a beauty budget and ensure to take care of your physical self because the first thing people see when they see you, is YOU, so present the best-looking you. Look put together at all times.

• Speak like a WOMAN. The Bible said in Proverbs, a soft answer turns away wrath. How accurate?! It does ladies. As women, we believe that in order for us to get a point across or to be taken seriously, we must be abrasive in our tone and use expletives for our men to be respectful. But ladies, it is actually a turn-off because you being abrasive is you operating like a man. Mark this down – no man will be abrasive with you if he respects you. For a man to garner respect for you, he will evaluate how you communicate with him. Another thing, stop trying to be dominant by telling a man what to do and how to do it. That is not feminine and you talking to him like a child will push him further from you and he will lose respect for you. Try speaking slowly and gently. Think before you speak and if needs be, take a minute to cool out before you say a word. Always ladies, watch your mouth.

• Create Routines. You must have a plan for your life ladies and the best way to start attacking those goals is to create effective routines. So create a morning and night routine and stick to it. For example, wake up at 5:30am, pray, meditate, prepare your breakfast and get ready for work (if you work). On your way to work, listen to motivational Podcasts or YouTube videos and avoid music ( this will allow you to hear yourself think). While you work, listen to relaxing sounds, not music and when you get home, prepare for your day ahead by picking out clothes, packing work bag and then move on to relaxing (reading a book, watching Netflix or listening to music of your choice) and skincare of course. The point is ladies, it is imperative for you to structure your life.

• Surround yourself with Feminine Women. You might be required to change your social circle. It is a known facts that the five persons you spend most of your time with is a direct reflection on who you are. So in order to live in your feminine energy, you have to find those friends who are one step ahead and friends who share similar directives for their lives. Let’s be real for a moment. If you hang out with women who are promiscuous, loud and believe firmly in using sex to get by – you will start acting like them, speaking like them and eventually doing the same things they are doing because bad habits are easily attracted and easily attached. You have to be selective ladies with the friends you keep because this can sink your life.

Ladies, I urge you - before you invest in a man or your family, first invest in you. Spend the time to really evaluate your life and see the flaws as it and decide to make a change. It is okay to be women. You don’t have to be “Miss Independent” and “Good by Yourself”. It is okay to be gentle and nurturing and loving because God designed you so. Do not let the world or another human being influence you to be who God NEVER created you to be and if you are woman, He wants you to be WOMAN, not man.