How should money be divided in a Relationship?

Finance is a deal-breaker in relationships. It can frustrate both partners which can ultimately result in a breakup. Money therefore is an imperative facet within intimate relationships and should be treated accordingly. So how exactly should a couple handle their finances? They should split it fair and square once the income they bring in can manage to so.

1. Talk about MONEY! Most couples are fearful to discuss finance as they believe that

what their partner earns is none of their business. I will say, if you are in a casual

dating relationship, there is no need to discuss this but if you are in a committed

relationship or a marriage – MONEY need to be talked about. This is highly important because both partners will be in a better position to make better

decisions and hence create a healthier environment to nurture and grow the

relationship.

2. “Meet in the CENTER!” Couples need to help each other carry financial burdens. It

is TOTALLY unhealthy and unacceptable for a man to be earning more than his

partner and not assist her or carry more of the financial responsibilities.

Accordingly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman earning more than her

man and she carries most of the responsibilities. This is not saying that the partner

who earns more MUST run to every “beck & call”. But to fully enjoy a relationship,

there must be joy and money can be a major issue in relationships if not managed.

3. Save together! Couples can make it a habit to have a bank account dedicated to their

relationship and this is advised to those who are looking to purchase a house or

preparing for a baby or to finance their child’s education. It is important to save

when in a committed relationship as it glues the relationship tighter and it also

forces the partners to exercise trust as you are basically investing and trusting your

partner to do the same. It is also a safety-net should any partner run low on cash

and also a means to deal with urgent matters that can arise.

Finance is a very important topic that needs to be talked about within relationship as it is a

sure way to eliminate financial problems and ultimately prevent breakups.