Should a relationship REALLY makes ME HAPPY?

Many persons are of strong belief that a relationship SHOULD make them happy else it is the wrong relationship. Some persons are bold enough to end their relationships the moment they start to feel like their partners are being complacent and not making a strong effort to make them happy. However, it is not another human being’s responsibility to make you happy. That comes from self-love.

If you find that you are always unhappy in a relationship and you have a past of relationship-hopping, then the issue is really within you. The truth is – you are really unhappy with yourself. This can be addressed and we will share with you how to conquer this.

• Accept that you lack self-love and constantly desire to be affirm. Truth is, if you constantly relying on someone else to give you confidence or make you feel loved and worthy, well you will forever be disappointed. No one should be imprisoned to do that for you. That is totally on you. Make an effort to purchase a journal and write out what is really holding you captive but do not forget to also journal how you desire to tackle each issues. We strongly suggest that you make an appointment with a Life Coach/Relationship Coach or a Counsellor/Therapist to really go into your mind and be free. It all begins there.

• Start doing things by yourself that makes you happy. Whatever you enjoy doing, do it and do it religiously. Stop ignoring your talents; hobbies.

• Date yourself. Take yourself out and enjoy yourself . You have to first commit to yourself so you know exactly what it is you want and like so you do not enter into a relationship trying to figure it out and putting burden on your partner to figure it out for you. Spend time with yourself and treat yourself exactly how you would desire your future Spouse to treat you,

In conclusion, a relationship is an addition to your life but you have a responsibility to yourself to ensure you lack nothing such as self-love and inner-peace. Make it mandatory each day that you give to yourself what you desire others to give to you. Make yourself happy and that my friend, begins when you kneel before God with your heart open ready to receive.