Tips on Starting Your Feminine Journey

What really is femininity? It is lady-like conduct and mannerisms. However, it can be defined as living in your truth as a woman. Women are naturally feminine because God designed them to be and He did for a reason. Ladies, being feminine doesn’t necessarily means wearing a dress and being a pushover. The Bible defines femininity as virtuous. A woman who owns her role and she is self-sufficient. She is poised and powerful. So no, Miss Kes is not telling you to dim your light but rather let it shine.

5 steps to becoming feminine:

• Address the way you dress. Now, this is not about switching to dresses and abandoning your jeans. Wearing jeans does not make you masculine by the way. Rather you want to look confident in what you are wearing and you want to be modest when needs be. So, you may require a closet makeover to suit your new journey and this step may require you to get some dresses, invest in makeup and get yourself a personal style. Bottom-line is, you will be addressed by how you are dressed.

• Curate routines. Routines will keep you on target and less stressed out because you will have an order in which you do things and live. Invest in a skincare, body-care, morning and night-time routine. Set a day out of the week and dedicate it to caring for you. But routines will keep you glowing and looking soft and dainty and will keep you on top of things in your life.

• Communicate in a feminine way. I know you probably are turned off by this because you are probably questioning what I mean by this but, this step will transform everything in your life. Learn to speak on a low tone. Yes, project your voice enough for persons to hear you but watch your tone when you speak. Learn to be attentive in conversations and be slow to speak. Abort being aggressive and abrasive and confrontational. Every disagreement does not require you being loud and using expletives. In fact, eliminate expletives from your vocabulary this instant. This step is one you will have to spend time and train yourself in.

• Create or rebuild a relationship with God. I will always include this because all the steps listed above is really insignificant if you do not have a relationship with God. He will heal you and restore you but first you have to invite Him in. You do this by confessing your sins in prayer, start to read the Bible and meditate upon His Words. But you must put Him first.

To be alluring and sexy, you will need to:

• Appreciate your body and become confident. This means wearing clothes that suits your curves and body type. If you feel the need to lose weight, start exercising and eating healthier but never bash your body – God created you perfectly.

• Look good on all occasions. Invest in loungewear and nice clothes but also ensure to take care of your body and dress it well and smell good at all times.

• Wear lingerie. Even if you are single, wear lingerie to bed. It trains you to be comfortable and confident.

• Walk, talk sexy. Do this by smiling when you speak and learn to walk slower. Learn to be confident in how you walk and in how you speak by investing in coaching, reading and researching.